It's mean to have called my family trailer trash, and I take it back. It was also wrong to have called the situation fucked up.
Sometimes I can hear my mother's voice in my head, and I can pay too much attention to what the mythical 'others' will think. The perspective is widened unnecessarily.
The whole truth is that my son and his girlfriend love eachother and wanted to make a real committment. My words made me the judgemental person and discounted their feelings for eachother. While I will leave the words to stand as evidence of my freakout, I honestly wish them nothing but faith in eachother, lots of love and a little luck as well.
Congratulate me, my son has married!!
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Congratulations :o)
It's ok that you were in shock though. It's ok if you're a bit hurt that they didn't involve you. You are not a bad mother for feeling those things.
xxx
Congratulations winging their way from across the pond.
Congrats to you, your son and new daughter-in-law! May they have years and years of happiness together.
*hugs*
coming to terms, indeed!
Ooooooooops, where ah mah manners?
Congratulations to you on the arrival of your daughter in law!
Congratulations Nony. I know this isn't how you hoped things would be, but I think you have a very healthy perspective on it.
Best wishes to your son and his new wife...and congrats to you!
The shock is understandable, but surely will wane.
Chin up...
shit tookie!! ***aaaugh****
LOL!!
I guess the bottom line here is that I LOVE my kids and will support them always. Thanks again my friends, I feel as if I've been given a huge group hug! ~~ Kim / Nony
What!!!!!
Oh My!..Congrats on your new addition to your.... well..... congrats on your new daughter in law.. But But But.. He can't be?.. Dam things just happen so fast in Oz!..The comings and goings.. I am like just geting use to him being in the service..Or am I like also lost as to the families I am keeping or trying to keep up with?.. If My Son does this I am sure to faint..and (((hurt))) but as you... will of course with all my Love accept and do my best for them(if allowed)(((Hugs))))
Tookie said what I wanted to say... LOL
Congratulations on becoming a mother-in-law.
{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
~Ginny~
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